Focus supremely on following kinsman redeemer Jesus Christ, and less on temporary/ultimately meaningless woes of this world of darkness...

"And a certain scribe came, and said unto him, Master, I will follow thee whithersoever thou goest.
And Jesus saith unto him, The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head.
And another of his disciples said unto him, Lord, suffer me first to go and bury my father.
But Jesus said unto him, Follow me; and let the dead bury their dead." Matthew 8:19-22, KJV